July 7, 2025 is the day my life changed forever.
I was on a Mediterranean cruise celebrating my youngest daughter's upcoming graduation. We were nearing the end of our trip, scheduled to disembark in Athens in 2 days. The day before had been a relaxing sea day. I followed my normal routine - woke up, grabbed breakfast, went for a run before lunch, caught a show, enjoyed a wonderful dinner, and went to bed excited to visit the island of Crete the next morning.
At 5:13 a.m., my wife woke up to what she thought was me snoring. She tried to wake me, but nothing stopped the sound. She turned on the lights and saw that I was purple. What she didn't know at the time was that I had gone into cardiac arrest, and what she heard wasn't snoring - it was agonal breathing, my brain desperately trying to restart my heart.
She immediately called the ship's emergency services. Because it was so early, the medical team arrived within minutes with an AED. It took two shocks to bring me back. I had been clinically dead for 10 minutes.
I was intubated, taken off the ship, and transported to a hospital in Crete. As doctors ran test after test to assess the damage, my family prepared for the worst - and struggled to understand how this could have happened. I had just turned 45. I had never broken a bone, never had a medical condition, never experienced anything more serious than a cold. I ran 15–20 miles a week and had biked 150 miles just three weeks before my arrest.
The next day, scan results began to show little to no brain damage. Doctors were cautiously optimistic about a full recovery. Even more surprising, they could not identify a cause. There were no blockages, no arrhythmias - nothing that explained why my heart had suddenly stopped.
That next night, they lifted me out of sedation. I spent hours talking with my family, with absolutely no memory of what had happened or even where I was.
I tell this story as it was told to me - by my wife and kids - because I have no recollection of it myself. In the hospital, every hour I would forget why I was there, and my family would gently explain it all over again. My memory slowly began to return around July 11, when I was transported to Athens to have an implanted defibrillator placed - a Boston Scientific device that happened to be manufactured just 15 miles from my home.
After returning from Greece, I underwent a dozen more tests. Still no answers. Even genetic testing revealed nothing. I am on no medications and have no restrictions. My doctor described it as a "freak fluke" and said it was nothing short of a miracle that I survived - not only because it happened outside of a hospital, but because it happened in the middle of the night.
Three months later, I ran my first 5K after cardiac arrest. Six months later, I was back on the ice playing hockey. Life has largely returned to normal, yet I remain in disbelief that any of this happened.
I am profoundly grateful - for the quick actions of my wife, the medical team, and for the overwhelming support from family, friends, and coworkers who surrounded us with prayers and encouragement. I am here because of them.
And I don't take a single day for granted.