44th Annual American Heart Association Beach Ride. Thank you for supporting the America Heart Association. Your contribution is greatly appreciated!
On September 17, 2024, my life changed forever. That morning, after riding my horse, I noticed numbness in my right hand and arm. Soon after, while speaking on the phone, I suddenly couldn?t find my words. I didn't know it then, but I was experiencing a stroke.
It would take months of uncertainty, delayed MRIs (in part due to the devastation of Hurricane Helene), and countless appointments before I finally received a diagnosis:
A stroke caused by a 60% blockage in my left carotid artery.
Aphasia, a language disorder that stole my ability to communicate clearly.
And later, Essential Thrombocythemia, a rare blood cancer that increases the risk of clots, strokes, and heart attacks.
I had spent over 20 years as an attorney and Chief Legal Officer...my identity tied to words, clarity, and communication. Suddenly, I could not speak, write, or even think the way I once could. The loss was devastating.
Aphasia: The Silent Struggle
Aphasia affects 2 million Americans, yet most people have never heard of it. For me, it meant losing a part of who I was. I still looked like myself...but I wasn't. Subtle humor, meaningful conversation, and self-expression became frustratingly out of reach. It felt like my authentic self had been stripped away.
Finding Healing in Horses
In the midst of fear and loss, I turned back to what grounded me...my horse, Freya, and my trainer, Calvin Halford, who himself lives with ALS.
Horses gave me hope. Research shows equine therapy stimulates the brain?s ability to heal itself. For me, horseback riding restored peace, confidence, and purpose when little else did. Calvin's resilience taught me how to face my own challenges with faith and perseverance.
What I Wish I Had Known
If sharing my story can help even one person, then it's worth telling.
Don't wait...go to the ER. If something feels wrong, act.
Get screenings. Annual heart and stroke checkups, including carotid ultrasounds, can save lives.
Be your own advocate. Ask questions, demand answers, and never ignore abnormal test results.
Why I Ride
Today, I am grateful...to be alive, to ride, and to share my story at the 44th Annual Beach Ride. This event is more than a tradition. It's a chance to honor survivors, remember those we've lost, and raise funds for the American Heart Association's mission... fighting heart disease and stroke through research, education, and community support.
Every mile we ride helps build a future where fewer families face the fear and uncertainty mine did.
Join us. Support the 44th Annual Beach Ride. Give from the heart....for every heart.
